Some parents might look forward to the day when their children are living independently and they are able to reconnect with their spouse, but this can also be a stressful time in a marriage. This newfound time together typically feels very different than time spent together early in the relationship—empty nesters sometimes report feeling that their partner has significantly changed or that they have just drifted apart.

An empty nest doesn’t have to mean the end of a relationship, though. If you and your partner are both committed to making your marriage work, there are things that you can do to start reconnecting and bringing romance into your relationship. Strengthening your bond with your partner requires work on both your parts, but it is the type of work that comes with a great reward.

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It is a common myth that successful relationships do not experience conflict. However, even the best relationship is bound to have issues arise (and it is even healthy for that to happen). The difference between a good relationship and a problematic one is how you and your partner choose to handle those conflicts; simply having a disagreement on an issue does not mean that you need to fight. Read more

Are you sabotaging your relationship because of a negative self-concept? While we often hear about relationship issues that stem from a particular action or inaction—an affair, a lack of intimacy, a fight—some relationship problems start with an individual’s perception of their own self.

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One of the most common misconceptions about forgiveness is that it’s an act of relieving someone of responsibility for hurting you. The words “I forgive you” take on an almost magical property, suggesting that the hurtful act is in the past and that everything can go back to the way it was before. But that’s not really what forgiveness is about. Read more