In a relaxed, emotionally safe environment, you’ll learn how to develop a conscious relationship and transform struggle into growth and connection.



Often as a follow-up to a workshop, Damian works directly with individual couples in private sessions. Coaching via telephone or Zoom is available.



These three-hour counseling sessions provide time for in-depth work that enables profound changes in a relationship to take place.



In a relaxed, emotionally safe environment, you’ll learn how to develop a conscious relationship and transform struggle into growth and connection.



Often as a follow-up to a workshop, Damian works directly with individual couples in private sessions. Coaching via telephone, Skype, or Facebook also available.



These three-hour counseling sessions provide time for in-depth work that enables profound changes in a relationship to take place.


Connect. Transform. Thrive. Imago Relationships.


Safe conversations are possible with Imago’s relational competency education and skills. Wonder, Curiosity, Safety, Connection, and then Communication.

All you need is an open mind, curiosity, and a desire to have a much better relationship.

Spend some quality time on the phone with me and explore your options. No obligation.


Are you a tiger or a turtle? Let me explain.

Imago Relationship Therapy looks at the behavior of individuals in a conflict through watching “The Turtle and Tiger Dance.” When individuals enter a conflict, they act one of two ways. “Tigers” get aggressive. They take their claws out and pounce at the other person. The “turtle” retreats to its shell. They try not to ruffle any feathers or exacerbate the conflict further. In fact, many turtles prefer to stay silent until the conflict is over (or appears to be over).

So… are you a tiger or a turtle? How about your spouse? Read more

When most people set out to change their relationship, they make one major mistake. They focus on the things they want their partner to change. But the truth is you’ll find more success in focusing on changing yourself first.

If your partner is working on changing his or her behaviors, communication style, and habits, great! You should absolutely support their endeavors. But that’s all you can really do.

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The time is finally here. Your kids have all figured out when they’re going to move out. You may be counting down the days… or you may be dreading any mention of the moment you’re going to become an empty nester. Maybe a bit of both.

This is a big transition for a lot of parents and a lot of couples, and can often bring up conflicting and confusing emotions. Before your kids move out, prepare yourself and your family for what’s ahead: Read more