“I would be so happy in our relationship if only you would change your behavior!” I hear comments like this all the time from couples in therapy or IMAGO workshops. And it’s usually followed by a statement that starts with either “You always…” or “You never…” The truth is, things will never change with this […]
When you think of love, do you imagine that moment where Cupid hits two people in the heart? They then look at each other and fall instantly, forever, in deep, true love. Then they ride off together into the sunset to live happily ever after. If so, you are falling for a myth. It’s one […]
Maybe it’s a pointed comment from your partner. It could be a look. Or even a certain tone. But it just sets you off. You can’t help but respond with a harsh comment. Your partner does the same. And suddenly, things have escalated into a heated argument. You both walk away feeling angry, frustrated, confused, […]
For some people, opening up about emotions can be difficult. This is primarily due to socialization in and out of families. While some associate this issue with males, people of both sexes can suffer from a low ‘emotional IQ’. This means they don’t know the important differences and relationships between emotions and thoughts. They may […]
